21 Ways We Strengthen Our Marriage
/by EMILY ORTON on JANUARY 4, 2017
Erik and I got married at age 21. This week we’ve been married 21 years. We’ve officially been married half our lives. In keeping with the Fezywig theme of stepping outside comfort zones into growth zones, and in honor of 21 years of marriage, I’ve compiled a list of 21 ways we strengthen our marriage. If that's too sappy, you may prefer the companion post: 21 Ways I Fail at Marriage
- We look for the good in each other
- We share in each other’s interests
- We are generous in our physical intimacy
- We practice gratitude
- We talk daily and don’t shy away from difficult conversations
- We smile at each other and speak kindly
- We flirt with each other
- We go on walks together
- We don’t nag each other
- We encourage each other
- We pray for each other
- We kiss at greetings and goodbyes
- We hold hands
- We laugh at each others jokes
- We decide together—no ultimatums, announcements or honey-do lists
- We never refer to each other as children
- We budget together and don’t point fingers
- We go on dates
- We mark every anniversary by doing something new together
- We keep each other’s confidences
- When we fail, we forgive each other